We received a note from a person who had found our article entitled “Parents and Playing Time,” through a search. In his email he wrote that he is an owner in a volleyball club, and one of the partners has a daughter who is not deserving of playing on the high level team where she plays, but that her father continues to use his influence to make the coach play her. He led off his email with, Your article really hit the nail on the head. We own a volleyball club and every year we get these types of parents. Are you ever going to make a DVD addressing these points? Below was our response:
Thank you for contacting me. This is a tough one since you are partners. I don’t know how to advise you other than to simply lay the cards on the table and tell him what you, (and presumably others) think. If the situation is as you say, he needs to understand he is not helping his daughter, but rather, crippling her.
I am attaching a great article, put out by Little League Baseball, which is completely fitting here. I’d especially recommend the “Prepare the Child” section of this document. I hope this helps and wish you luck.
This article, which was published by Little League Baseball decades ago, is a great resource for parents and league administrators trying to deal with the age-old problem of overbearing parents who try to ensure their children get all of the advantages. You can download the PDF here. We recommend everyone in your organization reads this.
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